WIN-LOSE / WIN-WIN / LOSE-WIN / LOSE-LOSE
Energetically we interact with others by our belief and our vibrational intention before any verbal or non verbal communication occurs. Language is a very poor translator since it is subject to many internal interpretations.
Our relationship with ourselves and then others have a certain vibrational frequency same as musical notes. Some music are pleasant and some are considered noise by the listeners.
The outcome of interactions of any two vibrational beings, internally with themselves and then externally with others is always pivoting on the end result of creating music or noise as this blending of frequencies occur.
The harmonics of two frequencies create a new one. Like oil and water these frequencies clash and become noise or they attract each other and harmonize to a pleasing music.
Regardless of all variables forming our intention , we usually find ourselves having an attitude that falls into one of these four main categories; WIN-LOSE, WIN-WIN, LOSE-WIN or LOSE-LOSE. This will energetically determine the outcome of our interaction with ourselves and then with others.
WIN-LOSE: “I have no problem with you as long as you do what I want you to do.” Lack of respect for themselves and others, covering it with a large ego and manipulating others. Children who were brought up with conditional love and not finding value in themselves and feeling valuable only when they earned something tangible or gained some special status. Full of dirty tricks. Never satisfied and wanting more. Always needing to use force, authority and manipulation in order to be satisfied and to interact.
LOSE-WIN: “I always lose so you might as well win”. Having Low self-worth and are a Great prey for win-lose attitudes at first until they realize that the abuse is not conducive to their well-being and the universal default of their greatness will eventually erupt and forces them to seek equilibrium.
LOSE-LOSE: “ If I lose I will take everyone down with me”. When two win-lose attitudes meet eventually one will lose and lose-lose attitudes will begin to create a lose-lose outcome for both parties. Also, it may promote attitudes that are detached from everyone else “if I can not win then everyone has to lose because if they lose more than I do, I may feel better”.
WIN-WIN: The win-win attitude encompasses a compassionate caring and loving attitude which becomes apparent to others representing respect for all and will create a different energetic flow. It shows integrity, recognition of the fact that self values are not established in external sources, commitments are important unless mutually revised, the view of universe is that all is well and available for everyone and one’s success will not diminish the other ones resources in the abundant universe. It comes from a knowing to reach for all that is desired with compassion for ourselves and others together as whole.
There is an absolute attitude which may be considered the universal attitude that surpasses all. Simply the WIN attitude! Considering that the glass is always full, the sun always shines, the rain is our connection to heaven, the love always flows, that compassion never diminishes, fear has no hostage, respect is the only language and joy is always welcomed.
You know you have a WIN attitude when you wakeup in the morning and dance to the sound of music and no one is playing.
Alex Abossein,
InnerFit, Oasis For Perfect Health